It's great. You're attuned to each other's bodies, and you know exactly what makes your partner weak. In fact, you've done it thousands of times. And that's why the usual rev-up-your-sex-life tricks -- satin sheets, slinky lingerie, scented massage oils -- aren't wildly relevant for you. But somewhere deep in your heart maybe you do miss that first-time excitement. And getting it back is much, much easier than you might think.
Share It's a shame, really. All these years I've been walking around with a vagina and had no idea of all the awesome abilities it possessed. Now, don't get me wrong, I wasn't completely clueless. I had the vagina basics down — sex, periods, peeing, babies — but never did I know I could lift small objects with my vaginal muscles. Sounds super badass, right? Seriously friends, this is just scratching the surface.
There just hasn't been a ton of science on what increases the odds of having a vaginal or clitoral orgasm, which is a damn shame. But new research of over 2, women actually found a lot of similarities when it comes to what feels good and might make you orgasm. It was created by best friends Lydia Daniller and Rob Perkins, who conducted Skype interviews with 1, cisgender women to find out what worked for them sexually. Then they created a survey with sex researcher Debby Herbenick, Ph. SO here are some ways to touch vulvas and vaginas that might actually feel really awesome.
My shit come in flavors. Naturally they burst into laughter when I said this. There were real tears!